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感悟爱情真谛

爱情是一朵生长在悬崖峭壁边缘上的花，想摘取就必须要有勇气！

鱼对水说：“在你一生中，我是第几条鱼？”
水说：“你不是在水中的第一条鱼，可却是我心中的第一条”
我不是鱼，你也不是水，我们都不是彼此生命中的第一个。
可是你是我第一个想嫁的人。
距离产生的美感与思念都是暂时的，都是源于一方不在身边的不习惯，一旦这种不习惯被习惯了，距离便会产生疏远。
生命是一项随时可以终止的契约，爱情在最纯美的时候，却可以跨越生死。
或许是宿命的安排，让我们在一个意外的时间,意外的地点，因为一点点意外遇见命中注定的他。

有一种感觉总是在失眠时才承认是相思
有一种缘分总是在梦醒后才承认是永恒
有一种目光总是在分手时才看见是眷恋
有一种心情总是在离别后才明白是失落

原来在爱人死后，活着的人是靠着回忆继续爱着的，
所以不要以为为爱的人死就是爱，
若真的爱，就为爱的人活着，活到很老很老

爱的最高境界在于“不说”，就是把爱情摆在心里，含在口里，流盼眼底，都比挂在嘴上可贵而扣人心弦。
爱情原本是心灵感应，其深刻处便在于不可言之的那份感觉

每个女孩都是一个无泪天使，当天使爱上男孩便有了眼泪，天使落泪坠入凡间，所以每个男孩都不该辜负你的女孩，因为他曾为你放弃了整个天堂

世界上有许多出色的男人和美丽的女人，然而属于你的感情只有一个，千万不要因为别人的眼光而改变自己的挚爱，千万别活在别人的眼里而失去自己，也永远不要太贪心

爱＋爱=两倍的爱 

爱－爱=无私的爱 

爱*爱=无限的爱 

爱／爱=唯一的爱

没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，可是他不爱你时也是真的不爱你了当一个人不爱你要离开你时，你要问自己还爱不爱他，如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开，
如果你还爱他，你应该希望他会幸福快乐，希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到幸福，就说明你已经不爱他了，而如果你已经不爱他了，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢！

真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的。
你只知道无论何时何地，心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你，
真正的感情就是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求，
毕竟感情是付出，而不是只想获得。

分开是一种必然的考验。
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。

如果世界上有一万个人爱你，那里肯定有我，
如果世界上只有一个人爱你，那人一定是我，
如果世界上没有人在爱你了，那是我不在了。

不是因为寂寞才想你，而是因为想你才寂寞，
孤独的感觉如此之重，是因为想你太深。

我爱你，可是我不敢说，我怕说了我会死，
我不怕死，我怕我死了，没人像我这么爱你。

世界上最遥远的距离不是生与死，
而是我站在你面前你却不知道我爱你；
世界上最遥远的距离不是我站在你面前你却不知道我爱你，
而是明明相爱却不能在一起；
世界上最遥远的距离不是明明相爱却不能在一起；
而是明明彼此思念却装做不知道。

如果有谁认为世上有十全十美的爱情，那么这个人不是诗人就是白痴。

分手后不能做朋友因为彼此伤害过，
不能做敌人因为彼此深爱过，
所以只能做最熟悉的陌生人。

爱情到底是吞噬还是回吐呢？有时候我想把你吞下去，永不分离，
有时候我却想把你吐出来，还你自由也还我自由，原来人的心里可以放下两份爱情两份思念，两份痛苦和快乐！

the day after my birthday!
having a test on my b’day; a mid-term
after the day of my b’day; 2 assignments gonna be handed in the same
week! wat a hectic birthday!!
I wish my b’day could fall on weekends..at least dun have so much pressure.. i can enjoy the weekend~
I didn’t anticipate for my b’day this year because it is too busy and some reason i guess…i didn’t know why so~
Top
of all, i would like to thank my dear frens, coursemates and housemates
for giving me a memorable 20th b’day. Thanks for your celebration,
wishes, and presents.. Muckssssss….love u guys so much~
At first, my cousemates told me they would celebrate with me the day after my b’day –i.e. today!
haha..but
i know that they would’t do so because they won’t celebrate one’s b’day
late unless they are some unforeseen circumstances. I might think that
they will celebrate on weekend! Guess what, I had my b’day celebration
on friday which i tot it was only a normal gathering which we took our
lunch. When i knew that they were going to celebrate with me that time,
i didn’t feel any surprise also. It might be something happened before
our lunch.. i guess..and it was really bz bz bz preparing our
assignments. Stress out! After all, it would be a simple celebration
though. thanks ya~~
When it came to the sat, i had my replacement.
But it was just a relax lecture and tutorial also. Not so heavy. I was
deciding the time and venue where i was going to meet my frens after
class by tat day itself. Cuz i’m so undecisive the previous day before
i got to decide this. I wanted to got TS but then it is quite far oso.
When the assignments revolving me then i felt like i dun wan to go TS
dy. So MV would be a preferably choice. So many perfumes booths were
set up that day!!!!!so attractive.. i wan hugo
bossssss…………..come to me pls…Having sushi king with my fren
tat day oso, but i just ordered 2 plates of sushi–the sotong and the
preserved seaweed. sorry for calling sotong..cuz i’ve no idea with the
japan name of it..haha. My toes were so pain that day since i was
walking here and there with my high heels tat day! Seldom wearing high
heels to shopping la…since my fren she was going to wear high heel
then wear it together-gether.. While
waiting for the other frens to join us, we hanging around and also grab
some presents for my frens..haha.. Planning to have Secret Recipe, but
full house!
Finally. it has come to the exact day of my birthday! No
special mood! Having exam!!!!I met my housemate that morning itself,
she didn’t greet me! (knowing that she might be pretending!haha..but i
didn’t say anything). When i reached campus that day, everyone was
doing their final revision. Nothing special. After all of us had
finished the quiz, amy was announcing something…today is IH’s b’day..
Let; sing her a b’day song. (kind of things..i forgot the exact words
dy)… Even the lecturer was singing with them. She even said something
like shud have bought a cake if know earlier…hahaha..a very
easy-come-easy go lecturer!hahahaa…. thanks ya~~~ When i reached
home, every thing remains usual,. I ate dinner with my housemates..she
didn’t say anything. After that, i was rushing my assignments. Planning
wat time to do this and that. But after all procrastinating everything
cuz bz replying comments and checking this and that! When i started
doing my revision for the exam, i knew something wrong outside there.
Someone knocked my door….haha..i was right! There was something
happening outside!hahaha
Once i opened the door, Happy B’day to u , Happy b’day to u ………………..
thanks
ya… A tiramisu cake with two candles on it…haha..taking photos and
chit chatting with my housemates…gosh..it was already 11 something
when i continued my revision. I simply read and went to sleep. Thinking
wanna wake up early the next day, mana tahu! Couldn’t wake up
early!hahaha

tat’s my b’day! thanks everyone~~~~~love u all~~

i seldom miss my family…but i was so touching and even my tears filled my eye when i received call from mommy just now. She wanted to wish me happy bithday just in case she will forget abt it 2moro~~thanks mommy and daddy..
i wish i could go home now cuz want to see the new design of my house~~
dunno when can go back though~

thank you daddy and mommy~~muacksss

I didn’t do that because i dun like it!
Does that mean if u dun like ur life then u can simply ruin ur life??maybe someone will say yes! but if u do, i look down upon u! peace!
I really irritated when i heard this: i don’t like to do that so i ……….
this is ur responsibility and it is not a choice for u to decide whether u wan or u dun wan!? since it is ur responsibity then u have to put in effort la! Do you think that other ppl like me  like to do that!???? But just because u dun like to do that, i ‘ve to spend extra many many hoursSSSS to finish your part! Don’t u think that i’m so free? i have nothing to do!? i don’t need to sleep? i’m noble???
Wake up  la u …responsibilty is responsibility !

“if you treat your other half with your whole heart, constantly thinking of ways to surprise him, things that will make him happy, when you break up, you wont think much of him because he really didn’t do much to your life. But, everything he does, everywhere he goes, he will see images of you. Because you have done everything for him.”

this is very true~ when u treat other as good as u can, u will be no regret as u have already put in ur effort! Eventually, the other side will appreciate the effort u’ve made some days later~

i sweared i dun wan to help u again! but i could not stop myself to do that cuz i was soft-hearted by the time you asking for help! I felt i was so dumb dumb dumb!!!!!y must i just say NO NO NO! Oppsss . i did say so. BUt u keep so n begging me… and i had some bad feeling if i couldn’t help u! I shudn’t have such kind of feeling! i didn’t owe u anything, but u did! I know i shud help my fren when someone needs my help!
**** something happened when i was blogging****
i felt that sometimes it is really really good to do works urself and not having group work cuz u need to consult others opinions before u do something; If u didn’t ask them beforehand, they will talk bad abt u and said that u zi ba zi wai and no respect towards them! Besides, the more people in the group, the more complicated when it comes to discussion when anyone is bz with this and bz with that, dun have time for this and dun have time for that! Even worse when they couldn’t fulfil what u need when u try to count on some to do something ! Maybe i’m so fussy with this acedemic assignment, but it is everyone’s responsible to do ur own job! But, one thing that shud admit is that u come across those groupmates which are productive, then doing assignment might be something that u enjoy by the brain storming idea tat everyone comes out with!*****CLOSED section!!
But don’t you think that i might not be so helpful all the times although u tot i was available to u ALL THE TIMES! IT WAS NOT!NOT NOT NOT!!!!!
U kept on breaking ur promise and i kept on giving u the second, third, fourth chances! What for ?? I couldn’t think of a better way to define our friendship! Actually when i recalled, i wasn’t know u tat much ( all the things i knew from all from your mouth but NOT my eyes!. There might be some was from my eyes, but it is just a small portion and they are even not so important!) When u needed me, i was like ur best best best best fren. But i dun see best of me will benefits u during the other time! What i can say now is i am so disappointing with it! If i can remake the whole process, i wouldn’t choose to know u or even meet up. U make my life more miserable and full of uncertainties!
that’s that~

你是一位善良且體貼的人，由於你的個性很柔軟所以別人很喜歡和你交朋友，
> 不過也因為如此在朋友之間你並不擅長發言自己的看法，相對的你卻很在乎別
> 人是如何看你，因為這樣你常常會覺得自己是否什麼事都做不好，你很容易受
> 傷不管是感情還是工作交際方面，給自己一點自信心，因為你已經很努力了，
> 說不定你並沒有自己想像的那麼脆弱喔。

i lack confident, i dunno how to express myself..
but how true is this prediction??
i just wonder?!

How 男朋友是：要來欺負的。
- 但是普天之下，只有你可以欺負他。然後，你還可以理直氣壯地跟他說：
「我沒欺負你，對不對？快說我沒欺負你！」

男朋友是：要來支持環保的。
- 用不完的洗臉奶，面膜，洗頭水，潤膚露和沐浴液都可以塞給他用，那你就可以買過新的。

男朋友是：要來減肥的。
- 你吃不完的，不好吃的，他幫你吃。那麼，你就可以只吃最好吃的和最喜歡吃的那些。

男朋友是：你有時無法不對他說謊的那個人。
- 當你的好朋友問你：「你這件大衣好漂亮啊！買了多少錢？要不要3000塊？」
你會立即翻翻眼皮說：「你想得美！3000怎麼行？半價也要3000啊！」
但是，當男朋友說：「你這件大衣好漂亮！」， 你卻會說：「半價才3000，是不是超值啊！」

男朋友是：要來秤體重的。
- 當你問他：「我肥不肥？」，他回答說：「肥！你很肥！」，你就知道你不肥。

男朋友是：要來增加自信心的。
- 當你失意沮喪，當你對自己感到失望的時候，你希望他在身邊。他的一個擁抱，勝過千言萬語。

男朋友是：白天裡，你看到蟑螂，老鼠或任何可怕的小東西都可以大聲喊他。
- 但是，半夜裡，當你肚子痛得死去活來，你卻會拚命忍受著，捨不得吵醒他。

男朋友是：良心發現的時候要來珍惜的。
- 有時候你望著他，會想想自己到底交上什麼好運，會遇上他，會有他這麼愛你。
不過，只是「有時候」，其他時候，尤其是生氣和吵架的時候，你會忘了。

男朋友是：用來把你自己貼上去的。
- 快樂或傷心的時候，有事沒事，你都擁有把自己整個人強橫地貼到他身上去的特權。

男朋友是：你愛他比任何人要多，你有時候卻又好像恨他比任何人都要多。

男朋友是：你把最多的思念留給他，也把最多的眼淚留給他

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女朋友是：是要来溺爱的.
-爱她的方法只有三种：溺爱，溺爱，然后还是溺爱。

女朋友是：要来明白这个世上除了男人之外，原来还有一种两脚生物是你穷毕生的聪明才智
也沒法理解的.因为你不能吃她，不能不理她，只能爱她。

女朋友是：要来练习臂力的.
-所有重的东西，你拿。
-不时要抱抱。虽然你沒比她重很多，而且她最近吃很多，屁股甚至比你的大。

女朋友是：要来训练胆识的.
-家裡有蟑螂，壁虎或任何可怕的小生物，你去杀生。
-前面好像有什么危险，你去看看。
-遇到惡人，你上！

女朋友是：要来百思不得其解的。
-你永远弄不明白，为什么她平时买了那么多的衣服，每次要外出时仍然会苦恼地对着衣柜抱怨：
「天呀！我沒有衣服穿！」

女朋友是：要来违反天性的。
-男人明明是天生会到处播种，到处留情的动物，然而，你却会因为她而明白，欲只可以寸进，
惟有爱可以直抵心房。你竟会为她想到守身如玉。

女朋友是：要来提升男性荷爾蒙的。
-每一次，当你滔滔不绝地谈到你的工作与理想，每一次，当你大发议论的時候，你看到面前
这个女人，她微笑的眼睛望着你，充满仰慕和崇拜。那一刻，你突然觉得，你在这个世界上
是多么的重要，你是个多么了不起的男人。

女朋友是：要来明白有一种幸福叫做寒冷。
-严寒的夜晚，她理直气壯地把一双冰冷的脚丫往你暖洋洋的肚子踩過去，你却竟然觉得有一种
说不出的温暖幸福。

女朋友是：要来让你便回一个小孩子的。
-你明明已经长大成人了，这个女人还是会在餐厅里把好吃的菜送到你嘴裡，而你竟然会不在乎
旁人的目光，張开嘴巴吃得津津有味。

女朋友是：要来心软的。
-爱上了她，你才发现原來你不是铁石心肠的，原來你还是很怕女人哭的。

女朋友是：要来挑战人类极限的。
-看过她睡觉时抓被单的样子，你还是觉得她可愛。
-看过她最糟糕的时刻，你还是很想跟她一起。
原来，你可以这么爱一个女人。
原来，你可以这样等一个女人。

女朋友是：要来欺负的。
-你做梦的时候尽管可以这么想。

女朋友是：她把最多的思念留给你，你却害她流最多的眼泪…