性格开朗易早死!??

June 27th, 2008 by irene-88

when i saw this topic, it really astonished me! wat a surprise to see tis since this is contradicting to our beliefs~

甚么样的性格,就生甚么样的病。中医有“怒伤肝”、“思伤脾”的说法,西方研究也有指敌意强、好竞争、欠耐性的“A型性格人”,患心脏病风险较高。
近年的科学研究,发现更多性格与健康问题的联系,像冲动的人易患胃溃疡、害羞的人易受病毒感染,最出人意料的是性格开朗的人较易早死。
科学界知道性格与早年经历有关,也与基因有关,像神经质是与血清素基因有联系,但对于性格如何引起疾病,未有一致的说法。

性格开朗易早死

研究指乐观的人平均寿命比悲观的人长7.5年,因疾病早死的风险低55%,出现残疾和长期痛症的机率也较低。性格冲动的人患胃溃疡的风险,是其他人的2.4倍。研究员猜测,这是因为冲动的人面对压力时,制造胃酸水平比平常高,引致胃溃疡。

至于性格害羞的人较易受病毒感染。研究也发现,一般人手臂有小伤口,70%四日内可复元,易怒的人却只有30%。
有焦虑症的人,患高血压的机率高三倍,这可能是因为压力荷尔蒙高导致。忧伤却故意压抑感受的人患癌症和心脏病的风险较高,当他们患上冠心病,死亡率也较高。

最外向的人的患病机率低15%。外向的人复元速度也较快,也不那么容易受感染。

至于性格开朗的人较易早死,令很多人大感意外。美国加州大学的研究发现,小时被家长和老师评为开朗和有幽默感的人,长大后比不开朗的人早死,“跟人们预期刚好相反,开朗和幽默感是跟寿命成反比”。

勤恳尽责是与长寿最有关系的性格特征,死亡率比性格相反的人低30%。性格悲观的人,早死风险比乐观的人高19%。

the 1st book ..

June 22nd, 2008 by irene-88

"Things will get as GOOD as you can STAND"

this is the 1st book i’ve finished it just by today!
the 1st book!! i never finished reading a whole book before cuz i dun like to read. But i like this book very much. CUz many of the points that has mentioned in the books share are quite close related to me..and also apply to me oso..except the marriage tat part!hehe

many thoughts are going on~

June 19th, 2008 by irene-88

keep on thinking, thinking, thinking.
keep on wondering, wondering, wandering.
keep on …….. etc

My mind seems like fulled with the uncertainty and troubles which are mind boggling.
I was wandering should i believe what a fren had told me before? Should i trust?
But i feel like i’m important to X when x is in "F" problem. That is the time whre X will consider me as X only fren, a so-called only fren tat X could count on. I was wandering  how true is the experience tat X shared with me before. I don’t think X will lie to me. All those thing don’t related to me. Plus, i will not use X to do anything although the things X told me was some kind of exaggerating to me. It is hard for me to believe thr is such a perfect guy, a lovely guy, etc.

Pls return the things u owed me!
It is so suffering to keep all these in my mind! Go off!!!!!!

———— —-JULY BABY ———— -

June 6th, 2008 by irene-88


Fun to be with. Secretive.
Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or
tensed..
Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest.
Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable.
Emotional
temperamental and unpredictable.
Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly.
spazzy at
times.
Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.
dislikes nonsensical
and unnecessary things.
Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and
forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong
sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations.
Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be with friends … Always
brood about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for
friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but
takes long to recover.

most of these points are quite related to me~wow~quite true


thanks my dear frens

June 1st, 2008 by irene-88

3days2nites at setapak. It is a long time i have not been to setapak. It is quite bored and i felt a bit faint on the way to setapak. I took 2o stations to reach wangsa maju. Before that i’ve been spending more than half an hour waiting for the rapid kl. It is so unefficient because they are not following the schedule. Sometimes they took a long time to reach the stations. Dunno what they are doing! It is really enjoying staying thr because it has a feeling of home sweet home. My dear cook dished and boil the soup. It is delicious. Everyday we spent the time chatting, eating, roaming somewhere ard genting klang. It just like a trip, relax and enjoy. No pressure, no stress. The first nite i saw a place further from the condo. It seems like the Genting. We do have a surge to be in Genting. Fresh air, cold breeze.

Time = money. You can use money to buy time.
Confort =money. You can use money to get comfort

expect the unexpected~

May 29th, 2008 by irene-88

Exam results had came out today. But i’m not satisfying with some of the grades. I thought i can score at least an A’s for a particular subject because i’ve scored a fairly high coursework marks and i did quite well in that subject except for a question in a particular part in the final. I thought i have answered it correctly before i handed in the exam paper. But after that, when my fren told me the right answer and i’ve double checked for it. I realized i did it wrongly. I was so disappointed. Nothing much i can do after that. I didn’t notice i did a mistake on it because i was so confident that it was the right answer. Wat a pity! For the other two subjects that i scored the highest in this exam were not so good for me. Because i think i did well for these two subjects in the final but one thing that make me can’t score a really high grade is that my coursework marks have lowered my overall grade! This is why i hate assignments! Although i really put in efforts in it, but didn’t reap what i’ve sacrifice!
I think many others will score a really high grades in this exam since i oso could have a pretty good grade. I might have to put effort doubly than others in order to get the good result as other. But other might have passed the exam easily but just simply have a glance on the materials. But i mysle f couldn’t do that! I dun mind to put in so much as long as i can score well! All the best irene!

what are the differences between acquitances and buddies

May 25th, 2008 by irene-88

To men, a friend is:

  1. Your brudder
  2. The one who will answer the 3am call and drive out to rescue you
  3. When asked for a loan, asks “how much” instead of “why”
  4. blessed with a different taste in women
  5. honestly tells you why your current girlfriend is a bitch
  6. refuses to take the last beer/cigarette
  7. lies on your behalf to anybody, even the police
  8. tells you about his success/failures before he tells his woman

new semester~

May 25th, 2008 by irene-88

2day just came back from sandakan. Met with a master holder taxi driver!a friendly and honest taxi driver too!
Hope tat everything will be fine in this semester..very tired..go to sleep.!~
continue some other day..

what does my birthday means?

May 25th, 2008 by irene-88

You are curious and a true follower. You can please someone so much that it seem like you are trying to charm that person. You hide your disagreement under your smiling face. This is a charming quality of yours. Your Love, You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by someone you don’t like while your dream person is so far away. Your love life is occasionally under turbulence. Sometimes you don’t have the clear view of the guy/gal in your heart.

final is over~

May 8th, 2008 by irene-88

Finally, final exam had passed. Main results are out. The exam really made me stress. I try to do my best in the exam. But sometimes the efforts you made is the same the outcome u get. Equality does not show consistency here. At least i’Il will try all my best . I know God bless me. Thanks God.
Actually i wanted to do the blogging before the final stats,. It means that somewhere during my study week. Countdown for every subject. Waiting for the result of every subject is suffer. I really worried for my writing exam for this semester because i knew that i didn’t do well. I keep on waiting , waiting, waiting for the result. I really scared.. I couldn’t concentrate..I had a bad mood… i”m not willing to do some other things besides the academic…i really scared! And I didn’t expect the first result to be came out was the PsychoL. I need not to worry about this subject cuz i know at least i wont’ get a very low mark for it although i can’t score very well in this sub. I keep on waiting for the AW. THe result had been handed in for a long time, but the result had not been posted! What are the ICT guys doing! Everyone is going psycho(i’m not sure is everyone feels like tat,but at least i’m.) and keep on waiting for the result. But dunno why it is so so so so slow to release the result. The longest time for the result to release up to this sem. It takes three weeks! Normally you can get the result after a week of the exam. I had writing in this sem, it is really tough for me because i do not like to read and therefore the time i spend on reading reflects completely in my writing skill. Writing is hard for me. When i come to writing, i do feel that i really need to improve my vocabulary, grammar. I want to improve my writing!!!!!! As an English student, I can’t do some common mistakes as other! If not what is the difference between an account student and an English student! Gambateh! Go and do some reading!!—-> I wan to improve my writing!!!!! (<.>)
Although I do not have the strong bond of relationship with My AW lecturer as some of other students, but overall she is a good lecturer. Always do something new for us and to my surprise, she had sorted the good comments from all of my coursemates to us. It’s kinda warm.. Thanks for your hard work. I really appreciate it. Arigatou~